25/10/2026
Put yourself in the situation
Apply for the role.
Book the event.
Go for selection.
Do the thing you’ve spent months telling yourself you’ll do when you’re ready.
Because eventually, preparation can become another way of avoiding finding out.
You might fail.
You might find out you’re not as fit as you thought you were.
You might struggle more than you expected.
Good.
At least now you know.
Some of the biggest lessons I’ve taken from the military, policing, training and these events have come from putting myself in situations where there was absolutely no guarantee I’d succeed.
And sometimes I haven’t.
But I’d rather put myself on the start line, give everything I’ve got and deal with the outcome than spend years wondering whether I could have done it.
And when you do put yourself into those situations, remember this:
Don’t let your body language quit before you do
When it gets hard, your head will want to drop. Your shoulders will slump. You’ll stop talking. You’ll start showing everyone around you exactly how much you want it to end.
Fight that.
Head up.
Keep moving.
Have a laugh.
If there’s a selection process, assessment, event or challenge you’ve been thinking about doing,
Stop waiting to feel completely ready
Prepare properly. Put yourself in the situation.
And find out.
You’ve got this