01/03/2026
“I have no regrets.”
It sounds beautiful in a song.
In real life, for most of us, it isn’t actually true.
Which is where many career conversations begin in my work.
Regret goes by many names.
Sometimes it sounds like
“I feel time is passing so quickly.”
Sometimes
“I wish I’d made a change years ago.”
Sometimes
“I cannot spend another year in the same place.”
Sometimes
“Maybe it is still possible to change careers in my 50s.”
Sometimes
“I want to set an example for my daughters.”
Sometimes
“At the end, what will I say I have achieved?”
Regret about something done.
Something not done.
Something that may never be done.
Or the fear that one day it might be too late to do it.
Regret sits in the background of many successful careers (and probably many lives too).
It makes us human.
It also makes us better by looking back at what might have been.
By making us feel worse today, it pushes us to do better tomorrow.
Most people don’t come to coaching to erase regret.
They come because they don’t want to carry the same one forward.