04/09/2026
So this is 40… 🥂
Am I where I thought I’d be at 40?
Absolutely not. 😂
Am I happy?
Yeah. I actually am.
My 20s were fun. Really fun. It’s honestly a miracle I’m still alive, thank goodness I was late to instagram.
My 30s were… interesting. There were some great times, some questionable decisions, a few plot twists I definitely didn’t order, and enough turmoil to keep things interesting.
But now I’m 40.
And do you know what? Bring it on.
I’m proud of where I am. I’ve never been the most outgoing, the loudest, the obvious leader. I have stuck to what I do best. I listen, and I do have a skill to nudge people into a direction that makes them feel good. And I will continue to do my best to be the best support for all my clients, friends and family.
I’ve built a business I love. I get to work with clients who have somehow become friends, sounding boards, drinking buddies and people I genuinely care about.
I have the most incredible circles of friends, and one of my favourite things about having a birthday is forcing all of those completely separate worlds to collide in one place. 😂❤️
I’m stronger than I’ve ever been, and I’m probably more comfortable in my body than I’ve ever been too.
I know what I believe in now.
I know what I stand for.
And I’m increasingly comfortable being stubborn about both.
I don’t have life figured out. I still make questionable decisions. I still have absolutely no idea what I’m doing half the time.
But I’ve got good people around me, a life I genuinely enjoy, a body that can do some pretty cool things, and a lot to be grateful for.
So, 40.
Less worrying. More confidence. Better boundaries. Stronger legs.
Let’s see what this decade has got. 🥂✨