26/11/2024
‼️ I had to unfollow my coach… ‼️
Not because there was something she was doing wrong.
But because following her, absorbing her content and being influenced by it, was messing with my head.
📌 At the time I didn’t know what it was, but I was constantly flipping between wanting to approach things in business in a very different way than she was, opposite of her teachings…
And questioning whether it was good enough, whether I was doing things wrong (because it wasn’t her way), and whether it would get her seal of approval.
Only to talk myself out of it and not do anything about it.
Then 3-4 months down the line, someone would launch a similar offer with nearly identical positioning.
❤️ I had to do some soul-searching and self-coaching, to look at the stories I was telling myself and what was behind the resistance to do things my way.
What I uncovered was massive…
📌I couldn’t figure out who I was without her as a guide and a teacher, because I credited some of my biggest learnings and breakthroughs to working with her. And I was afraid I wouldn’t know how to grow without her influence.
📌Being in her circles and around her content energetically disrupted my flow - I was talking myself out of incredible ideas and out of uplevelling my messaging because my inner critic kept arguing that it was not good enough, that it wouldn’t be matching her standards and her teachings
📌I realised my inner people pleaser was fawning over her success, that I couldn’t recognise the mismatch in values, which was stopping me from shifting the way I did things in my business.
Ultimately, it delayed me in making my business and messaging more inclusive and shifting my work from hyper-individualism to community building.
❗️ To be clear, I do not place any blame on my coach, it was my thing I needed to resolve and my codependency I needed to release.
It required a radical action on my part because I needed to completely detach from it energetically all, in order to regain the clear channel to my own voice and inner truth.
And that meant I had to remove her from all my areas. I unsubscribed from her emails and unfollowed or muted her on all socials.
Too much? Maybe… But it was what I needed to be able to move forward in my own way.
This is the kind of work I do with my clients in the 1-2-1 coaching session…
I help you:
✳️ Unravel what is causing the dilemmas and preventing you from making expansive or difficult decisions
✳️ Uncover which subconscious beliefs & conditioning are standing in the way of you trusting your intuition and what’s clouding your wisdom
✳️ Uncover any potential resistance and resentment that’s making you go into avoidance and creating distractions
And for the next 4 days, you can get 1 hour of my coaching for £250 instead of £350.
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Love,
Ena
Ps. I’m happy to report that nearly 2 years later, I’m the most confident I’ve ever been in my own decision-making.
My channel to wisdom is clear and I don’t dwell too much whether what I’m doing with my business is right or wrong!
I KNOW it is right for me and for my values.
I KNOW it is right for the way that I want to build community and contribute to it.
There are 4 days to go for the limited time discount for the 1-2-1 coaching session with me.
Let me guide you in uncovering what’s underneath the resistance and your dilemmas.
