30/03/2023
One of the things I notice in my coaching practice is the extent to which people describe themselves in fixed ways (eg. introvert, conscientious, disorganised) or cling onto the character trait labels attributed to them by parents, teachers, bosses, colleagues (or diagnostic psychometrics, my personal bugbear!).
These default positions are entirely possible to shift if we apply regular, ongoing, deliberate and self-compassionate attention. Much of the work I do as a coach is supporting this process and it is such a privilege to join people on that journey.
"Whether you are wrestling with serious issues or simply want to polish off your rougher edges, it is reassuring to know that character is ultimately within your own hands. DNA and our upbringing may predispose us to certain traits, but we also have the power to shape our future selves."
Have a read and see what you think:
Think youβre stuck being scatty, or an introvert? The latest research suggests otherwise