29/06/2022
Fear has a lot of negative connotations, and for self defence the fear of violence can often be debilitating for people. However this is a purely psychological issue. The anticipation of what your perception of violence will feel like is the issue for most people, and this is what causes panic and freezes.
There needs to be an important distinction between fear and panic- panic is uncontrolled and irrational and is to be avoided. Fear itself is actually healthy and rational- think of it more of wariness. Concern for things that may threaten your well being is a very good thing to have, someone with absolutely no fear is likely to lead a risky and potentially short life! Having a healthy respect for danger is not a bad thing, however you must identify it for what it is and not allow it to escalate to panic.
When you are afraid, you get an adrenaline dump of varying degrees depending on situation, and if you are unfamiliar with this sensation it can often be confused with extreme fear, which in turn escalates into panic. The adrenaline dump is not a bad thing, it is a useful and natural response where your body is preparing itself for fight or flight- which is exactly what you want in a self defence scenario! Your reactions will be faster, you will be stronger, bleed less, and be prepared to move explosively. These are all attributes we want on our side.
The key to utilising fear is to understand what is happening and not let it tip you into panic. Understand the physiology of it, and understand violence dynamics, and you will go a long way to prepare yourself to reduce the panic of a violent situation.