31/05/2023
The ability to play a role can be invaluable for personal safety. Whether thats playing the vulnerable victim to lull an aggressor in, or acting as if something has gone wrong to remove yourself from a situation pre-emptively, being able to convincingly portray something makes all the difference having it accepted as being true.
There is a big focus on movements being natural when looking at strategies for safety, so as not to alarm/alert our aggressors and provoke further escalation. Having the ability to act natural is harder than you might expect- particularly under pressure! Being confident and relaxed in the image you portray is a legitimate acting skill, after all you essentially need to play a convincing role in order to give you the highest chance of a predictable and desirable outcome.
As well as when you are already engaged, you can also use acting as a tool pre-emptively to avoid situations. Imagine you are at a cash point and you feel someone is acting suspiciously and you fear they may be waiting to rob you. You need a way to naturally avoid that situation without it being suspicious and raising alarms. Maybe you loudly swear and act like your card has failed or you have no money, so withdraw the card with no cash and walk off annoyed. You have shown you are a low value target and exited the potential scenario without engaging with the aggressor.
Perhaps you are being followed, and need to make an abrupt turn to a safer environment, or do something that would be hard for someone following you to also justify. Try abruptly stopping, and tapping your pockets as if you have forgotten/lost something, then walk back the direction you came with some urgency.
There are many ways you can play with this idea, but it is just another tool to add to the toolkit!