07/07/2026
🚨NEW BOOK ALERT🚨
I am seeing something in women right now.
There is a movement out from the hidden places, stagnant places, silent places and spaces where fear had too much authority.
Women are coming forward with trembling hands and sharpened conviction. Some are carrying uncertainty in one hand and obedience in the other. Some are still healing while making decisions they could no longer postpone. Some are stepping into rooms they once disqualified themselves from entering.
There is progress. There is courage. There is a holy dissatisfaction with staying where the soul has outgrown the room.
Yet beneath that progress, many of us are still trying to understand the deeper tension:
Why do I keep doing what I know I no longer want to do?
Paul gave language to that divided place when he spoke of doing the very thing he did not want to do. Many women know that place intimately. The desire to change is present, yet the pattern still has access. The intention is sincere, yet the old response still finds a route back in.
Ladies, we have all been there. I have been there.
Recognising a pattern, then repeating it.
Calling something “normal” because it was familiar.
Speaking like the old self while trying to build a new life.
Performing healing because we had the words for growth before we had the structure for transformation.
Making room for what we had outgrown, then wondering why what God was rebuilding in us could not fully settle.
That is why I wrote What You’re Not Going To Do.
For the woman who is ready to stop ignoring the repeat.
For the woman who is tired of returning to the same scene.
For the woman who is done auditioning for a life she has been called to build.
For the woman who finally understands that the greenfields is not be the risk. Staying where she keeps shrinking is the real risk.
This book is about recognising what shaped you, understanding what it produced, dismantling what cannot remain, rebuilding what should have been strengthened and rerouting your life with truth, wisdom and intention.
It is about examining the dominant consciousness that taught us what to call normal, acceptable, safe, wise, loyal or possible.
It is about asking harder questions without shaming ourselves for needing answers.
It is about making progress with understanding, not just movement with exhaustion.
What You’re Not Going To Do is now available in Kindle, paperback and hardback.
This is a book to sit with, mark, journal through and allow to speak to the parts of you that are ready to stop surviving in old architecture.
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https://bit.ly/WYNOTGTD
