01/09/2026
This is for if you’re struggling in your relationship(s)…
We don’t always realise when a relationship has stopped aligning with who we are.
Sometimes we’ve known someone for years. A partner, a friend, a colleague. And somewhere along the way, we’ve changed but the relationship hasn’t.
When we begin to set boundaries, we may discover that the other person isn’t comfortable with the changes we’re making.
They may still expect the version of us they’ve always known.
The version of you that always….
said yes.
stayed quiet.
over-gave.
and made themselves smaller to keep the relationship comfortable.
But growth can change our relationships and that might feel quite uncomfortable and as if you’re the one in the wrong!
But setting a boundary is enough to also create a healthier relationship.
And sometimes, the boundary shows us that the relationship itself may no longer be right for us.
So perhaps it’s worth asking yourself:
Where in my life am I tolerating something that no longer aligns with who I am today?
And…
Is this a relationship where I need to create a boundary or one I may need to leave?
REMEMBER: you’re allowed to grow + you’re allowed to let your relationships change with you.