Polly Bloom Divorce & Relationship Coach · Clinical Hypnotherapist

Polly Bloom Divorce & Relationship Coach · Clinical Hypnotherapist Divorce and relationship coach supporting individuals and couples through separation, repair and change.

Trauma-and nervous-system-informed, offering calm, steady support grounded in emotional awareness and clinical hypnotherapy.

𝗪𝗵𝗼 𝗔𝗺 𝗜 𝗡𝗼𝘄?You spend years building a life.Raising children.Running a home.Building a career.Supporting ageing parents...
17/06/2026

𝗪𝗵𝗼 𝗔𝗺 𝗜 𝗡𝗼𝘄?

You spend years building a life.

Raising children.

Running a home.

Building a career.

Supporting ageing parents.

Being there for everyone who needs you.

Then one day, almost without warning, life begins to change.

The children grow up and begin lives of their own.

Retirement appears on the horizon.

Many women are navigating menopause, while men may also be experiencing changes of their own.

The busy years that once gave structure and purpose begin to quieten.

And suddenly, a question emerges:

𝗪𝗵𝗼 𝗮𝗺 𝗜 𝗻𝗼𝘄?

Not as a parent. Not as a provider. Not as someone's husband or wife.

Just... me.

For some couples, this stage brings a renewed sense of connection. They rediscover each other and begin a new chapter together. For others, it reveals how far apart they've drifted while busy building a life together.

The conversations feel more practical than meaningful. Their interests are different. The emotional connection feels harder to find.

It can feel unsettling. After all, you've built so much together.

Perhaps this stage of life isn't asking us to rush into decisions. Perhaps it's inviting us to become curious. Curious about ourselves. Curious about our relationships. Curious about what we want the next chapter of life to look like.

Sometimes what feels like the end of something is simply the beginning of a different conversation.

I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Have you ever reached a stage in life where you realised you had spent so many years caring for others that you'd lost touch with yourself?

Much love,
Polly Bloom 🧡

If you're navigating a season of change and would value support, reflection and connection with others who understand, you're warmly invited to join my free community, The Passage Home Sanctuary. A gentle space for honest conversations, encouragement and finding your way through life's transitions:

https://www.skool.com/the-passage-home-sanctuary-1179

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗶𝗺.I𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗺𝘆𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.For a long time, I questioned ever...
15/06/2026

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗶𝗺.
I𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗺𝘆𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.

For a long time, I questioned everything.

How had I not seen what was happening?

Why had I ignored my instincts?

Could I trust my own judgement anymore?

These are questions I hear from many women after betrayal and divorce.

In fact, one of the most common things women say to me is:

"𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘐 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱."

When we talk a little more, it's often not that they don't trust another man.

It's that they don't trust themselves.

They fear getting it wrong again.

Missing the warning signs.

Opening their heart and finding themselves back in the same place.

Now, if someone genuinely doesn't want a companion or another relationship, that's completely okay.

But I think it's sad when someone spends their future days alone, not because it's what they truly want, but because fear has convinced them they can no longer trust their own judgement.

Trusting someone you love isn't a flaw.

Wanting to see the best in someone isn't a flaw.

Someone else's deception is not proof that there is something wrong with you.

The journey isn't about learning to trust him again.

It's about learning to trust yourself again.

If this resonates with you, I've created a free guide:

✨ 𝟯 𝗚𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗕𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝘂𝗽

You'll find a free copy in the image below, along with an invitation to join 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲, my free community for people navigating separation, betrayal and major life transitions.

Much love,
Polly Bloom 🧡

𝗗𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻?The one where your ex said something hurtf...
08/06/2026

𝗗𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻?

The one where your ex said something hurtful.

The mediation meeting.

The text message that changed everything.

Or perhaps the conversation you never got to have.

You replay it while driving.
While trying to get to sleep.
While making a cup of tea.

Part of you is still searching for answers.
Trying to understand.
Trying to make sense of it all.

I know that feeling well.

After my own divorce, I spent far too much time living in conversations that had already happened.

What eventually helped wasn't finding all the answers.

It was learning how to bring my attention back to the present moment and gently calm the emotional storm inside.

That's why I created my free guide:

✨ 𝟯 𝗚𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗕𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝘂𝗽

If this resonates with you, you'll find a free copy of the guide in the image below.

You'll also receive an invitation to join 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲 - my free community for people navigating separation, betrayal and major life transitions.

Perhaps today is the day you stop carrying that conversation quite so heavily.

Much love,
Polly Bloom 🧡

Grateful for the kindness and for being trusted to make a difference.
07/06/2026

Grateful for the kindness and for being trusted to make a difference.

𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗜 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁.Then reality would come flooding back in.I know many people who have expe...
04/06/2026

𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗜 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁.

Then reality would come flooding back in.

I know many people who have experienced separation, betrayal or heartbreak will understand exactly what I mean.

Those first moments of the day can feel incredibly hard when you're carrying loss, uncertainty and unanswered questions.

During my own divorce, I kept looking for the thing that would make me feel better.

The breakthrough.
The answer.
The moment everything would suddenly feel okay again.

But healing didn't happen that way.

It came through small, gentle steps repeated day after day.

Getting outside for some fresh air.

Talking to someone who understood.

Learning ways to calm my mind when my thoughts were racing.

Trusting that even tiny steps forward still count.

That's why I've put together a free guide:

✨ 𝟯 𝗚𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗕𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝘂𝗽

Three simple, practical ways to help you start the day feeling calmer, more grounded and a little more like yourself again.

If this resonates with you, you'll find a free copy of the guide in the image below.

You'll also receive an invitation to join 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲 - my free community for people navigating separation, betrayal and major life transitions.

Sometimes healing begins with one small step.

And then another.

Much love,
Polly Bloom 🧡

𝗜 𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘁 𝗮 𝘀𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗳 𝗳𝗼𝗼𝗱.There must have been hundreds of items in front o...
26/05/2026

𝗜 𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘁 𝗮 𝘀𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗳 𝗳𝗼𝗼𝗱.

There must have been hundreds of items in front of me.

Yet I couldn't decide what to put in my trolley.

Not because I suddenly cared which brand to buy.

But because my mind was somewhere else entirely.

Looking back, I realise I was in shock.

I was still doing all the things I was supposed to do. Going to work. Shopping. Paying bills. Answering questions. Smiling when expected.

From the outside, life probably looked much the same.

But inside, I felt completely different.

I was carrying on with what was familiar, going through the motions of everyday life, but I wasn't fully present in any of it.

I was trying to make sense of what had happened, replaying conversations, searching for answers and wondering how the future was ever going to look okay again.

The practical side of divorce felt impossible to think about because I was simply trying to get through each day.

I remember wandering up and down those supermarket aisles feeling detached from everything around me.

And I dreaded seeing anyone I knew.

Not only because I couldn't bear the thought of being asked if I was okay.

I didn't know how to answer that question.

But because I no longer knew who I could trust.

Did people know what had happened?

Had they known before I did?

Who had been told?

Who hadn't?

When trust has been shattered, it can feel as though the ground beneath you is no longer solid.

The walk from the car park to the supermarket entrance felt enormous.

A distance of only a few metres somehow felt impossible.

I would sit in the car gathering the energy to get out, then count down the minutes until I could return to it and leave again.

At first, I didn't want to see anyone.

I withdrew.

I shut out the world.

But over time, something shifted. I went from wanting to hide from the world to telling my story to almost anyone who would listen.

I found myself telling my story over and over again.

Trying to make sense of it.

Seeking validation.

Searching for reassurance that what I was feeling was normal.

Searching for answers to questions that often had no answers.

People were carrying on with their lives as normal.

Meanwhile, I felt as though I was drowning in my own thoughts and emotions.

It was agony.

At the time, I thought there was something wrong with me.

Why couldn't I concentrate?

Why did the simplest decisions feel overwhelming?

Why couldn't I just pull myself together?

Looking back, I understand a little more about what was happening.

My nervous system was overwhelmed.

As a clinical hypnotherapist, I now understand that when we experience emotional shock, betrayal, loss or a significant life upheaval, our mind and body can go into survival mode. What felt like confusion, forgetfulness, exhaustion and emotional overwhelm was, in many ways, my system doing its best to cope with an experience that felt unbearable at the time.
What I know now is that many people experiencing heartbreak, separation or betrayal are doing exactly the same thing.

They show up.

They function.

They keep going.

But underneath, they are carrying a weight that nobody else can see.

If you're finding yourself in that place right now, please know you're not alone.

The fog doesn't clear overnight, but little by little it does begin to lift.

And sometimes the first step is simply finding a space where you don't have to carry it all by yourself.

That is one of the reasons I created The Passage Home — a supportive community for people navigating separation, divorce and life's difficult transitions.

A place to feel heard, understood and reminded that, even in the hardest moments, you don't have to walk this path alone.

Join us in The Passage Home:
https://www.skool.com/the-passage-home-sanctuary-1179

💛 What's one ordinary moment from a difficult time in your life that you still remember vividly today?

Much love
Polly Bloom 🧡

19/05/2026

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗹𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆...

When emotional safety disappears, the impact can run far deeper than most people realise.

Sometimes the deepest shock is not just the ending of a relationship… but the moment you realise the place that once felt safest no longer feels emotionally safe at all.

Betrayal can quietly unravel your sense of trust, certainty and even your connection with yourself.

You may begin questioning your instincts, replaying conversations, walking on eggshells or feeling emotionally overwhelmed by the smallest things.

And that confusion can feel incredibly isolating.

But slowly, with the right support, steadiness and space to breathe, it is possible to reconnect with yourself again.

To begin trusting your own inner voice.
To feel safe within yourself, even when life around you feels uncertain.

Sometimes healing begins not with having all the answers… but with finally acknowledging the impact the experience has had on you.

If this resonates with you, the 𝗕𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗧𝗛𝗘 Community is a gentle space for support, reflection and reconnecting with yourself again.

Comment BREATHE and I’ll send you the link.

Much Love
Polly Bloom 🧡

𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗪𝗲𝗲𝗸 | 𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗸For a long time, I believed being “strong” meant keeping things to mysel...
14/05/2026

𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗪𝗲𝗲𝗸 | 𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗸

For a long time, I believed being “strong” meant keeping things to myself.

When my marriage broke down, I initially tried to carry the emotional weight alone. On the outside I was functioning, but internally I was overwhelmed, confused and struggling to process the reality of what was unfolding.

It wasn’t until I started opening up and talking about how I truly felt that some of the heaviness slowly began to lift.

Talking helps.
Not because someone can magically take the pain away, but because being heard softens the weight of carrying everything alone.

So many people are silently struggling whilst trying to appear “fine” on the outside.

That’s one of the reasons I created my 𝗕𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗧𝗛𝗘 Community and 6-week BREATHE course - a supportive space to feel heard, understood and supported. A gentle, guided recovery programme for women navigating emotional overwhelm, separation, and life after divorce.

Blending divorce coaching, nervous system support, and clinical hypnotherapy to help you feel calmer, clearer, and more like yourself again.

A space to pause, talk and steady yourself.

If this resonates and you’d like support, details of my BREATHE sessions are in the comments below 🤍

Much love
Polly Bloom 🧡

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗡𝗼 𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗴𝗻𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳You stand at the kitchen sink, staring out of the window… your hands resting in luk...
13/05/2026

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗡𝗼 𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗴𝗻𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳

You stand at the kitchen sink, staring out of the window… your hands resting in lukewarm water long after the washing up is finished.

Your mind replays the conversation again and again.
Your tone.
Your words.
Your expression.

Wondering if perhaps you really were “too sensitive” after all.

The house is quiet… but your body feels tense, braced, unable to fully let your guard down.

You realise how much energy you spend trying to keep the peace, avoid conflict and make yourself smaller so someone else can feel comfortable.

And now, that same woman is somehow expected to find the strength to navigate a separation or divorce with someone who has blindsided her emotionally. Someone she no longer fully trusts.

But perhaps the hardest part of all… is that after years of second guessing herself… she no longer fully trusts herself either.

Somewhere in the middle of holding everything together, she lost her sense of safety, certainty and self.

If this resonates with you and you’re longing for a little space to breathe, I offer gentle 30-minute 𝗕𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗧𝗛𝗘 sessions for women navigating emotional overwhelm, separation and divorce.

A gentle, guided recovery programme for women navigating emotional overwhelm, separation, and life after divorce.

Blending divorce coaching, nervous system support, and clinical hypnotherapy to help you feel calmer, clearer, and more like yourself again.

A space to pause, talk and steady yourself.

Please feel free to message me privately if you’d like to know more 🧡

Much love
Polly Bloom🧡

𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗟 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗧𝗛 & 𝗗𝗜𝗩𝗢𝗥𝗖𝗘 🤍This week is Mental Health Awareness Week.And I think the emotional impact of separation and di...
11/05/2026

𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗟 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗧𝗛 & 𝗗𝗜𝗩𝗢𝗥𝗖𝗘 🤍

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week.

And I think the emotional impact of separation and divorce is often deeply underestimated.

People see the legal process.

But they don’t always see the emotional shock underneath it all.

Your relationship changes.
Relationships with family and friends can change too.
Your home may change because of the division of assets.
Your finances change.
Your routines change.
Your job or career may change.
Sometimes your role, identity, confidence and sense of purpose change too.

I remember feeling shocked, confused, stressed and emotionally exhausted.

Yet somehow we’re expected to continue functioning as though nothing significant has happened.

Keep working.
Keep parenting.
Keep making life-changing decisions while emotionally overwhelmed.

If you’re feeling mentally exhausted, anxious or stuck in survival mode right now, please know you are not weak and you are not alone 🤍

Sometimes the first step is not solving everything.

Sometimes it’s simply finding space to breathe again.

This is one of the reasons I created my BREATHE sessions; a gentle 30-minute breathing space to pause, exhale and calm an overwhelmed nervous system.

A space to feel heard without judgement and supported when life feels emotionally heavy.

If you'd like more information about BREATHE, comment 𝗕𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗧𝗛𝗘 below and I'll send you the details privately. 🤍

What helps you soften the intensity when life feels heavy? 🌿

Much love
Polly Bloom 🧡

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