01/05/2026
About a month ago I hit a turning point and I started HRT , it took me 3 years from the first time I approached my doctor about it.
I was at the point where I was not just a bit tired or a bit stressed anymore… I was actually past the point of coping alone.
I’d done what so many women do.
Kept showing up.
Because that’s what we do, right?
We minimise our own struggles.
We push through.
We convince ourselves we just need to try harder.
But the truth is, I’d waited too long to ask for help.
And choosing to get support wasn’t giving up.
It was a turning point.
During the last month I’ve felt:
✨ Energy returning
✨ A more stable mood
✨ A calmer relationship with food and appetite
✨ Sleep slowly improving
✨ And the biggest one… I feel like myself again.
This post isn’t really about treatment or labels.
It’s about something bigger.
It’s about women learning that we don’t have to suffer quietly to prove we’re strong.
Real strength is:
🤍 listening to your body
🤍 saying “I need help”
🤍 putting yourself back on the list of people you care for
🤍 allowing support instead of carrying everything alone
As women we are incredible at supporting everyone else , but we’re often the last person we show compassion to.
And this experience has changed me as a coach.
I understand even more deeply now as I have been through it myself, that progress isn’t just training plans and nutrition targets. It’s hormones, life phases, mental load, identity, confidence, exhaustion, resilience, the whole human behind the programme.
Women supporting women matters.
Sharing experiences matters.
Normalising asking for help matters.
If you’re reading this and quietly struggling, feeling unlike yourself, or wondering when you stopped feeling good…
You are not failing.
You are not weak.
You are not alone.
Sometimes the strongest thing a woman can do is reach out and let other women stand beside her while she finds her way back to herself. 🤍