12/06/2026
I feel like we have all been here at some point and even now I still have ‘why can’t I get this’ moments! It’s so important to be patient with yourself and your horse, the results are so worth it!
Ever understood a riding theory perfectly, but your body (and your horse) just didn't get the memo?
It's the ultimate training trap.
We start working on a new skill or fixing an old habit. By session three or four, our brain completely gets it.
Because we understand it, we expect the breakthrough to happen right then. When it doesn't? We finish the session feeling frustrated and miffed.
But here is the science of training: The brain learns much faster than muscle memory can adapt.
When you and your horse are rewriting old habits, you aren't just practicing a movement. You are physically building new neural pathways. That takes time, repetition, and a lot of clumsy drafts.
If you feel like you "should have got it by now," you haven't failed. You’re just waiting for the physical body to catch up with the intellect.
Give yourself and your horse some grace. The breakthrough is coming—it's just busy cooking.