03/11/2026
November is Men’s Mental Health Month, so I wanted to share the real side of it.
Behind the smiling photos, mountain days, football and helping others, I have my own inner demons too. Looking like I’ve got everything under control doesn’t mean it’s calm inside.
These last few weeks I’ve been struggling. Overthinking everything, lying awake because my head won’t switch off, constantly on edge. Simple decisions feel ten times bigger, then I question myself afterwards. It’s fu***ng exhausting.
It isn’t all rainbows and calm waters. Sometimes it’s a fu***ng super storm tsunami.
I know these waves. I’ve ridden them before. For me, they haven’t disappeared, but I’m getting better at recognising them and knowing what I need to pour out of my cup before it spills over. I’ve spoken to my GP and I’m taking some pressure off myself.
I’m sharing this because it might help someone, not as a cry for help or attention. If I’m encouraging men to be honest about their mental health, that includes being honest about mine.
If your head’s doing laps while you’re telling everyone “yeah, all good”, you’re not alone. 🤝💚
- Callum