07/06/2026
What would you do to look in the mirror and love yourself?
Not just put up with how you look… but actually love who you are, the way your body is and what you do for yourself everyday.
Maybe you’d be happy to spend £££, or put yourself through gruelling work outs… even eat food that you didn’t really like that much but knew it was healthy and so best for you.
But what about listening to yourself, sitting in the uncomfortable emotions, trusting your body (and that she’s trying her hardest) and not subscribing to every diet that tells you to eat less, move more, shrink yourself…
Doing the simple things are often the hardest, so we fill our time with complicated mornings routines and counting calories and managing macros.
But really you just need to ask yourself the simpler question. What would help me today?
It’s easy to fill your mind with things you should be doing, that are never quite straightforward enough to stick at. So you’re stuck in a loop of trying, giving up, blaming yourself, changing the plan, chasing something even more complicated… just so you can tell yourself you’re trying.
But deep down you know your just avoiding the thing that feels to hard…
And that’s ok! Human nature is to seek comfort. Familiarity is comfort, even if it makes us sad… at least we know that it’s a predictable sad.
But you can change it. You can stop the avoidance, and break the cycle of being busy going nowhere.
So ask yourself “what would help me today”, and when you hear that whisper of a response, listen to it 🫶🏼