La Garde-Robe des Âmes

07/06/2026

Le coaching shopping utilise les vêtements et leurs accessoires comme des outils de recentrage sur soi. Méthode de développement personnel, elle suscite des railleries et des moqueries au sein de la société moderne. La théorie du gourou, tant décriée, ne se trouve qu’à une longueur de manche d’un pull.

Peut-être est-ce simplement le reflet d’une société en perte de repères ? Celle qui impose inconsciemment des diktats, qu’ils soient vestimentaires ou autres. Elle forge des tendances en s’appropriant des croyances culturelles ou des contextes géopolitiques, souvent sans en mesurer la portée. C’est d’ailleurs l’occasion d’évoquer un objet issu d’une pratique religieuse orientale, doté d’un « gourou »: le mâlâ.

Le mâlâ est un chapelet utilisé lors des prières méditatives dans le bouddhisme, l’hindouisme et le jaïnisme. Il comporte 108 perles, plus 1 perle plus grande appelée « guru ». Chaque perle représente une même prière ou un mantra répété 108 fois. Le gourou, qui signifie « montagne des dieux » ou « centre de l’univers », marque le début et la fin des invocations. Arrivé au terme du cycle des récitations, le gourou ne s’enjambe pas. Cela reviendrait à ignorer les enseignements ou le maître spirituel.

Les 108 perles sont réalisées en bois, en os, en pierres semi-précieuses ou précieuses. Chaque matériau représente une qualité, telle que la guérison, la purification, etc. Le nombre 108 est considéré comme parfait. 1 signifie l’union de soi et de la conscience supérieure. C’est une énergie masculine. 0 évoque un état d’esprit calme et serein, dépourvu de toute agitation mentale, qui incarne la plénitude de la méditation. 8 représente l’infini, l’éternité, le cycle karmique sans fin, ainsi que l’énergie féminine.

Le mâlâ existe aussi sous la forme d’un bracelet (21 à 27 perles). La liste des bienfaits de ce chapelet est longue pour une partie du monde. Pour l’autre versant de la planète, c’est un accessoire de mode, version « cool attitude », qui ne correspond pas forcément à la réalité. Quoi qu’il en soit, chers gourous, prenez bien soin de vous 🌸🌈🦋

03/05/2026

For those who understand that love starts with oneself and that there is no longer any need to seek oneself in others’ eyes.

For those who see being alone as a sign of self-respect, health, happiness, and strength rather than feeling lonely and mistreated in a crowd.

For those who rise stronger with a deeper level of consciousness, as the phoenix did.

For those who understand that they are their own best friends, forever….❤️🌸🌈🦋

26/04/2026

Laundry service…🧺
Respect has nothing to do with age.
Choose your surroundings wisely!

Know your worth ❤️🌸🌈🦋

20/04/2026

Sea green gets its name from the crystal-clear waters of oceans. Water, like fire, has long been associated with the purification of the body and mind.

Sea green, linked to Tlaloc—the Aztec rain god of storms and agricultural fertility—symbolizes both life and destruction. He can nourish the land, but can also cause drought. His wife and sister, Chalchiuhtlicue, represents flowing waters, rivers, lakes, childbirth, and newborns. She is often shown wearing a sea green skirt. Their worship involved sacrificing young children. The belief was that more children's tears on the way to the altar would lead to better harvests.

In Japanese mythology, a green resembling sea green represented celestial strength and freshness. Historically, the Japanese color palette consisted of only four primary colors: blue, white, red, and black. Notably, blue originally referred to bright colors, including green.

Interestingly, these color codes are used in scientific settings to distinguish water types. Blue indicates rivers and groundwater. Green represents rainwater that seeps into the ground and evaporates through plants and forests. Gray signifies domestic wastewater.

In daily life, sea green symbolizes serenity, calm, and peace. This vintage-inspired hue has a light, soft feel, making it ideal for summer evenings.

Sea green complements beautifully with natural linen, white, beige, and navy blue. It adds a psychedelic touch to orange and pink, or, for a more sophisticated look, pairs with gold 🌸🌈🦋

22/03/2026

We all grow and change in our own ways, each following a unique life pattern.

As we progress through life, it is important to remember that, regardless of our experiences, some people around us may choose an easier path for their own reasons or for their own growth.

Keep this in mind: forgive, but don't forget.
What you’ve learned matters.

Remember your value and keep up the good work ✨✨
🌸🌈🦋

14/03/2026

You are the main character of your life and the only one who knows and understands your journey.

Your environment, personal and professional, may say: « If I were you, I would dress differently, try new styles, keep a low profile to fit in, or to find a job. I would do this, or that, etc. »

Here’s a quick (almost) polite spring reminder to your social environment:
« If I were in your position, I would shut my mouth ‘cause you have no idea of what I’ve been through.»

Always remember: trust yourself and follow your own path 🫶🏻🌸🌈🦋

08/03/2026

Your environment shapes your behaviors and emotions. Over time, it can affect your health, mindset, and self-awareness. This influence can be positive or negative.

Therefore, here is part 13 of the emotions-and-physical-interactions posts.

Sometimes, even when you live decently and respectfully, others may be malicious. Clothes and decoys can mislead or just be a layer of polish.

There are always signs indicating you’re in an unhealthy situation or environment. They are called red flags, such as:
🔸You feel like your brain is shrinking or melting.
🔸You lose your sharpness.
🔸You feel uncomfortable and experience muscle tension when some jokes or mindsets are used.

At first, you might dismiss these warnings as exaggerated. But you're mistaken. Trust your inner voice urging you to escape. It is your survival instinct and closest ally.

For your well-being, set boundaries quickly. Minimize interactions with the triggering environment whenever possible. You can’t control other people's behaviors.

Know your worth. Those who see it may try to take advantage of you.

🌸🌈🦋

27/02/2026

Realize your full potential. Your light doesn’t need validation, approval, or permission to shine! ✨✨

Know your worth!
🌸🌈🦋

23/02/2026

Today, UN Secretary-General Mr. António Guterres delivered a speech at the opening session on threats to fundamental human rights.
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The United Nations Human Rights Council opens its latest session in Geneva with high-profile addresses from global leaders, including UN Secretary-General An...

21/02/2026

I have faced severe traumas and abuses since childhood, but over the years, I learned to recognize and name these patterns. This awareness has helped me break free from gaslighting. Now, I am about to turn 53.

Since I was young, I have believed that real maturity means taking responsibility for your actions, words, and beliefs. Marriage, parenthood, and relationships are personal choices, but society often pressures people to make them.

Over the years, I worked my way up from shop assistant to an office manager position in engineering research. During this time, I followed courses on Edouard Bach Flower Methods, High-Sensitivity Type Person, and Academic Anatomy and Physiology.

Although I am not a physician, I conducted independent research to deepen my understanding of mental and physical health, integrating a sociological perspective on clothing. I have been a yoga student for 10 years and completed 300 hours of yoga teacher training.

Some people have dismissed my work in life coaching through clothing as just a hobby and even suggested I take it off my CV. Since this practice does not provide enough financial support, I am looking for a second job. What’s weird, some boutiques or stores want to use my social media for free promotion. I am not an influencer, and any real business partnership should come with a proper proposal. Furthermore, I don’t do fashion or brand, I do “people”.

Today, people over 48, especially women, often face stigma. Common reasons given are menopause, lack of motivation, fatigue, and health issues related to age. What the f**ck!?

As I near 53, I have never felt more physically and mentally sharp. Nothing and no one is going to stop me ✨🌸🌈🦋