Petra Gordon

Petra Gordon I show widows how to live and love their lives again after the death of a husband without the guilt Petra currently resides
in Ontario, Canada.

Petra Gordon is a graduate of the University of Waterloo, with a
Bachelor of Arts Degree in Social Development Studies, and a
Bachelor of Social Work Degree. After serving her community
for thirteen years in the social services sector, Petra now serves
her community as an entrepreneur, educator, speaker, widow
support coach, and community leader. She is the author of
Faith in the Fire: A Story of Resilience.

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯TAKING A BREAK FROM SOCIAL MEDIA πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I’ve been sensing for a while that I needed to take some time away from social...
06/17/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯TAKING A BREAK FROM SOCIAL MEDIA

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I’ve been sensing for a while that I needed to take some time away from socials

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I’m currently in transition and getting ready to embark on something new, which is a pretty big deal for me personally and professionally

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Social Media is a great tool. I’ve made some great connections here

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Social Media can also be a time waster and a distraction if your time on here is not intentional

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ This sabbatical is to give me some focused attention and time to spiritual, personal, and professional development without distractions

⬇️ WHAT TO EXPECT NEXT

πŸ“Œ For the widows in my email community, I will continue to serve you with weekly newsletters and complimentary 1:1 coaching Fridays

πŸ“Œ I will not be checking DM’s during this sabbatical. If you would like to connect, send me an email at [email protected]

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I’m excited for this time away. I genuinely believe I will come back better than ever as I work on myself and work on my craft so I can add more value to those of you that I am here to serve

πŸ”₯ P.S. If you are a widow, you can subscribe to the email community for widows. That is the community that will receive most of my time and attention in this season

πŸ‘‡πŸΎ Click the link πŸ”— for the services and support I still have available during my absence from Social Media

https://linktr.ee/petragordon



πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ COURAGE TO LIVE FULLY: TRANSFORMING GRIEF INTO PURPOSE πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Before I became a widow, I would go around in cycles wi...
06/06/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ COURAGE TO LIVE FULLY: TRANSFORMING GRIEF INTO PURPOSE

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Before I became a widow, I would go around in cycles within my life

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I would write out lists and goals every year, and yet I didn’t see the personal growth or the needle moving forward toward my goals

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I had insecurities and fears that from the outside person looking in, they couldn’t tell

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I looked confident and sounded confident when I spoke. In my heart, the truth was present, and I had no clue how to deal with it

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I would read books and attend events. Listen to motivational speakers. I would get fired up and leave wanting to conquer the world

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Then I would return to the reality of my life, and nothing changed

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Here is what I want you to know. The issue was never the information I was receiving

⬇️ MY ISSUES WERE

πŸ“Œ Lack of belief

πŸ“Œ Lack of a plan

πŸ“Œ No application of what I learned in my life

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Can we have an honest conversation? Of all the notes you have taken from events. All the podcasts you listen to. Have you implemented one ☝🏾 thing you have learned?

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ It’s natural if the answer is no. Life happens, and we get busy. Yet nothing in our life improves. WILL POWER is not enough

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ This cycle broke for me when my husband died. What I was doing on my own was not working

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ What SHIFT everything for me was joining a coaching community

πŸ“Œ I felt seen

πŸ“Œ My coach normalized my struggles

πŸ“Œ I received tools that were practical to empower me to grow personally

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ When I started to experience the healing and transformation even while grieving, I knew then that I wanted to create the same experience for widows

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I will be launching a coaching membership for widows this year. If you would like to be added to the list for the details when I launch, send me a DM

πŸ”₯ P.S. The membership is in the development phase. If there are things you, as a widow, would like to see in this coaching community, send me a message. This community is being built for you, so I want to hear from
You

πŸ”₯ P.S.S If you are not a widow tag one in this post or share it with one. I’m here to serve



πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ THE COMPLEXITY OF GRIEFπŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I wish grief was as straightforward as culture tries to paint it with the β€œ5 stages of ...
06/03/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ THE COMPLEXITY OF GRIEF

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I wish grief was as straightforward as culture tries to paint it with the β€œ5 stages of grief.”

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Truth is the five stages was never intended to be a framework for grief. It was created for folks who were dying and facing terminal illness

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Somehow, it got turned into this trajectory for grief

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Can I help you here? Grief is not linear. Though you may feel a number of those emotions that are described in the five stages, they will not be in order

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ you will loop around and revisit a number of those thoughts and feelings throughout your journey

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Sometimes you may feel like you are making strides in your grief journey, and then a memory or experience will trigger something within

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ You may start crying uncontrollably in public or private and be confused

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ You may think I should have been over this by now. It’s been a year, it's been two years. Why does this still hurt?

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ We live in this microwave culture where the messaging is always around how you can do something QUICK and FAST

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ The truth about grief is healing for most is not quick or fast

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ What can be misinterpreted like it was for me. Just because you are functional and keeping busy doesn’t mean you are dealing with the grief

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Avoidance doesn’t bring healing or growth. It may help you cope temporarily, but when grief is left unattended, it has an impact on you and your life

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Grief is a natural part of life, and yet we have never been shown how to work through our thoughts and feelings surrounding it

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ Those on the outside looking in would prefer you to hurry up and get back to normal

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ NEWSFLASH: there is no going back to normal when you have a spouse, parent, child, etc, die

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I created the email widow community because, as a widow myself, I understand the complexities of grief and having a spouse die

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ If you are a widow, I invite you to join the widow email community. I don’t use bots to communicate with you. When I send out my newsletters, they are from me, and I respond personally to the replies from my subscribers

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ This is an email community to provide compassionate support, community, and education for widows

πŸ‘‡πŸΎ If you are a WIDOW subscribe to the email community

https://www.petragordon.com/newsletterforwidows

πŸ”₯ P.S Every widow that subscribes receives a free video resource on guilt in grief

πŸ”₯ P.S.S If you are not a widow, share with one that is


πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ THE WAIT IS ALMOST OVER!πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Join me along with other incredible speakers for this 3 day summit for widows and wido...
05/28/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ THE WAIT IS ALMOST OVER!

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Join me along with other incredible speakers for this 3 day summit for widows and widowers

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ PURPOSE RE-IMAGINED officially kicks off this Thursday May 30, 2024

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ You still have time to REGISTER for this incredible event

πŸ‘‡πŸΎWHO IS THIS SUMMIT FOR

βœ… This is for you if you are a widow or widower looking for practical ways to navigate loneliness after the death of your spouse

βœ… This is for you if you are a widow or widower wanting to rebuild your financial future after loss

βœ… This is for you if you are a widow or widower and you want to start dating again after loss and would like some guidance on how to do this

βœ… This is for you if you want to know how to establish boundaries in grief

βœ… If you struggle to get things done since the loss this summit is for you

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ There are so many incredible speakers and topics being covered specifically for widows and widowers you don’t want to miss this! REGISTER today. Click the link πŸ”— below ⬇️

https://www.widowsquadpresents.com/purpose

πŸ”₯ P.S If you are not a widow or widower tag one or share this post with one


πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF: LIFE IS TOO SHORT πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ This was 2017. The last time I would ever travel with my husband...
05/24/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF: LIFE IS TOO SHORT

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ This was 2017. The last time I would ever travel with my husband. We were in Jamaica for his brother’s wedding

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I never imagined the following year he would be dead

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I think back to all the things that I allowed to create anxiety, and worry leading up to Ian’s death

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ When I think about it I wasted too much time worried about things that weren’t important

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Ian’s death has changed me in many ways. One of which is not β€œSweating the small stuff” I let things go much quicker

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I CHOOSE to trust in God

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I don’t remain in spaces that don’t bring out the best in me. I understand the value and worth of the life God has given and I take none of it for granted

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I CHOOSE PEACE ALWAYS. No toxicity allowed πŸ™…πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ The greatest way I can live out Ian’s legacy is continuing to move forward and fusing together the dreams we shared plus the new ones that have evolved for me personally over the years since his death

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I don’t know when my last day will be. Until that day I will LIVE OUT LOUD! How about you?



πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ PURPOSE RE-IMAGINED: REBUILDING YOUR LIFE AFTER LOSSπŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ There comes a time on your journey where you may ask the q...
05/22/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ PURPOSE RE-IMAGINED: REBUILDING YOUR LIFE AFTER LOSS

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ There comes a time on your journey where you may ask the question What’s Next? Where do I go from here?

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ After grief counselling/therapy or attending your grief support group you may be left wondering what will you do with the rest of your life?

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ The wonderful thing is you get to CHOOSE how you want to live out the rest of your life after this loss

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I’m honoured to link arms with the Widow Squad and all the incredible men and women that will be sharing during this summit

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ This summit is for widows and widowers. It’s completely πŸ†“

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ You may not feel ready today to embrace purpose and meaning. REGISTER anyway!

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ You never know what one thing can be shared that can profoundly shift how you experience your widowhood journey

πŸ‘‡πŸΎClick the link πŸ”— REGISTER TODAY! I look forward to connecting with you

https://www.widowsquadpresents.com/purpose

πŸ”₯ P.S If you are not a widow or widower share the post with someone who is

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ARE YOU A WIDOW FEELING LOST AND UNSURE HOW TO MOVE FORWARD AFTER YOUR HUSBAND’S PASSING? πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Learn how you can fin...
05/21/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ARE YOU A WIDOW FEELING LOST AND UNSURE HOW TO MOVE FORWARD AFTER YOUR HUSBAND’S PASSING?

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Learn how you can find peace and joy again without the weight of guilt...

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I specialize in guiding widows through their grief, helping them honour their husbands’ memories and reclaim their lives with renewed purpose.

πŸ‘‡πŸΎCONSIDER THIS:

βœ… Living in harmony with what matters most to you now
βœ… Waking up to a life that inspires and motivates you daily
βœ… Fulfilling dreams that respect both your needs and your husband’s legacy

πŸ‘‡πŸΎ IF YOU’RE READY TO LEAVE BEHIND:

❎ Guilt for desiring a happy and fulfilling life
❎ Uncertainty about your identity and future direction
❎ Doubts about embracing new dreams and goals

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Don’t delay!

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Send me a DM to learn more about Specialized Grief Coaching for Widows!

πŸ”₯ P.S. If you are not a widow share with one that is in search of this type of support


πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ STRONG & STRESSED: BLACK WOMEN & MENTAL HEALTH πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Strong Black Woman…What happens when I become tired of having t...
05/20/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ STRONG & STRESSED: BLACK WOMEN & MENTAL HEALTH

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Strong Black Woman…What happens when I become tired of having to be strong all the time?

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ How many times do we hear β€œBe Strong, or You are so Strong”? This can be exhausting

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ At what point do you get to be the person to lean on another for support?

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ The challenge with being perceived as so strong is that people look at you and feel you don’t need any support ever

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I know for myself before the death of my husband it was hard to let my guard down and accept help. I haven’t expected people to be there for me when I need it the most

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ We learn without realizing it, how to just do things on our own. Encourage ourselves. Going through years like this is tiring

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ How can we cultivate relationships with other emotionally healthy women that can be a soft landing? Women who can hold space for you when you are vulnerable and need someone else to be strong for a change

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ There is a cost to trying to do everything on your own. Stress left unchecked and unmanaged can impact your emotional, spiritual, relational, and physical well-being

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ How can we better recognize the signs of stress and burnout and implement healthy practices and habits to manage it better?

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ How can we redefine what it means to be a β€œStrong Black Women”? in a way that empowers and builds us up versus depleting us and breaking us down over time

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I have the honour and pleasure to be a guest on this podcast

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ Mark your calendars for this Thursday, May 23, 2024 at 7 pm EST. You don’t want to miss this!

πŸ”₯ Join us for this conversation. We always have a powerful time in these episodes

P.S Click on the link πŸ”— to the video podcast to be notified πŸ‘‡πŸΎ

https://www.youtube.com/live/9jc7EvpveEg?si=ZcoWu8gLEdHT2jO8

πŸ”₯πŸ’ƒπŸΎEMPOWERING WIDOWS AND WIDOWERS TO DISCOVER MEANING AFTER LOSSπŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I’m so excited to share with you the PURPOSE RE-IM...
05/16/2024

πŸ”₯πŸ’ƒπŸΎEMPOWERING WIDOWS AND WIDOWERS TO DISCOVER MEANING AFTER LOSS

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I’m so excited to share with you the PURPOSE RE-IMAGINED: REBUILDING YOUR LIFE AFTER LOSS Summit!

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ This is an event for widows and widowers

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ What we know is that when you experience the death of a spouse there is a feeling of loneliness, and uncertainty about your life and what to do next

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ That first year after my husband died I wasn't thinking about meaning or purpose

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ As I continued on this widowhood journey I started to learn more about myself and how I wanted to live my life and continue my late husband’s legacy even while grieving

πŸ’πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ This event is being hosted by the Widow Squad who are widows helping other widows through their organization

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I want to invite you to register for this event and share it with other widows

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ I have the honour of being one of the Grief and Widow experts sharing during this virtual event. We want you to be a part of this. You don’t have to navigate this widowhood journey alone. Community is important

πŸ‘‡πŸΎ P.S This event is FREE. Click on the link πŸ”— to register Today!

https://www.widowsquadpresents.com/purpose

πŸ‘‰πŸΎ P.S.S If you are not a widow or widower share this with one that is



πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ ANTICIPATORY GRIEF: ALLOWING YOURSELF TO FEELπŸ‘‡πŸΎTo read the full post check out my page https://www.facebook.com/beau...
05/15/2024

πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ”₯ ANTICIPATORY GRIEF: ALLOWING YOURSELF TO FEEL

πŸ‘‡πŸΎTo read the full post check out my page

https://www.facebook.com/beautyfromasheswithpetragordon

πŸ”₯ If you connect with the content and find value in it, LIKE, FOLLOW, and SHARE the page with someone navigating grief and loss



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