03/13/2026
You know the right room by what it does to you when you're in it.
Once a month I drive to a Legion Hall in Bradford with my SWAN Group. Down-to-earth women, completely different businesses, zero pretension. I leave every single time with a full tank.
And then there was Giovanni Marsico's Messenger event in Austin in 2023. I showed up mid-crisis. Fertility treatments, exhaustion I couldn't explain, a version of myself I'd been slowly losing track of.
I sat in that room and felt like I belonged there. In the middle of all of it, there was still space for the biggest, brightest version of me to be seen and valued.
Same feeling.
Completely different rooms.
That's the part nobody tells you about the right room.
When you're in the right room, things stop feeling so heavy. The pressure (and maybe even brilliance!) you've been carrying alone finally has somewhere to go.
What changes for you when you're in the right room?