07/05/2026
Years before my burnout, I was leading an elephant.
I was carrying the weight of leadership in a significant organisation, and a leadership coach I deeply value introduced me to the work of Charles Handy.
It changed how I thought about my life and leadership.
Handy wrote about elephants and fleas. Elephants are large institutions, slow-moving, structured, built for stability. Fleas are the agile, independent people navigating alongside them. Sometimes inside them. Sometimes despite them.
Most organisations are elephants. Most of the people leading them are fleas, whether they've named it yet or not.
He also wrote about the Sigmoid Curve, the idea that everything follows a pattern of growth, peak, and decline. And about jumping your curve. Starting the next chapter before the current one peaks.
The leaders who navigate change well aren't the ones who react when the decline becomes obvious. They're the ones who see it coming and move before it's too late.
And then there's the portfolio life. The idea that a meaningful life isn't built on one career but on a portfolio of different kinds of work, each season contributing something that the others couldn't.
I understood all of it completely.
And then I burned out anyway.
Because knowing something and actually living it are two different things. I was too deep inside the work to see the shape of it. Too busy leading the elephant to notice where I was on the curve.
Here's what I've come to care deeply about.
I don't want leaders to wake up ten years from now and wonder how they got there. I don't want capable, committed people to look back and realise they never stopped long enough to think about what they were actually building, or whether it still deserved their best years.
That's why margin matters. Not as a luxury. As a necessity.
That's what Flea Factory is becoming. A place for leaders to stop, think clearly, and make sure their ladder is on the right wall.
If any of this resonates, details on upcoming events are in the comments.