15/09/2026
When it comes to trying to shift our money habits many of us focus on trying to change the behaviour without getting curious about what’s driving it.
The impulse purchase.
The avoidance of your bank account.
The guilt when you spend.
The need to save every dollar.
These behaviours usually make more sense when you understand the story, emotions or beliefs underneath them.
Instead of judging yourself for what you’re doing, try asking:
✨ What am I feeling right now?
✨ What am I afraid might happen?
✨ What did I learn about money growing up?
✨ What am I trying to create or protect through this behaviour?
Awareness creates choice.
And from there, change becomes much more sustainable.
The goal isn’t to be “better” with money. It’s to understand yourself well enough to make choices that actually feel aligned with the life you want to create.
Save this for the next time you catch yourself judging one of your money habits.