21/01/2026
Dear Ethan,
Today you turn 12, and youāve reached an age where youāre officially taller than me, (which Iām still in denial about!).
Youāre now in the in-between season.
Not little, not grown, but stretching in every direction - physically and emotionally.
I see how you take in the world. The way you think before you speak. The way you care deeply, even when youāre not sure how to show it yet.
The way you are learning who you are, not by copying others, but by paying attention to what feels right to you.
You have a way of leading that doesnāt shout. You notice people. You make space. Youāre thoughtful, funny, and far more observant than you realise.
The world doesnāt always reward that kind of strength straight away, but itās the kind that lasts and will serve you well into the future.
There will be days when growing up feels awkward, loud, or unfair. On those days, remember this: you donāt need to be the biggest personality in the room to make an impact. Being kind, honest, and true to yourself will take you further than you think.
You donāt need to rush growing up.
You donāt need to have it all figured out.
You just need to keep being you. š
Iām so proud of the boy youāve been, and I canāt wait to see the young man youāre becoming, even if I do have to start looking up to talk to you! š³
Thank you for teaching me patience, perspective, and how love can stretch in ways I never imagined.
Happy 12th birthday, my gorgeous boy š
Always on your team!
Love,
Mum āØ
