03/09/2026
We spend months choosing the tiny outfits, assembling the nursery, and packing the ultimate hospital bag. We prepare down to the very last detail for the arrival of a baby.
But almost no one prepares us for the arrival of the mother. 🌿
There is a psychological word for what happens the moment your baby enters the world: Matrescence.
Just like adolescence, matrescence is a massive, life-altering transition. Your hormones shift overnight, your daily routines evaporate, your body undergoes deep physical recovery, and your sense of identity changes forever.
Yet, somehow, society expects us to step into this brand-new role seamlessly—with instant confidence and zero adjustment period.
If you’ve felt overwhelmed, confused, or like you’re trying to catch up with a version of yourself that no longer exists... please give yourself grace. You didn’t just gain a child; an entirely new version of you was born, too. She is learning, adapting, and finding her footing day by day.
Swipe through to learn more about this transition, and remember: you were never meant to navigate it alone. 👉
Drop a 🤍 in the comments if you’re currently in the thick of your own matrescence journey, or tag a mum who needs this gentle reminder today. 🌿