18/08/2026
I’ve spent a lot of my life alone.
I’ve searched for connection, thinking it was something I had to find “somewhere”.
The right city.
The right community.
The right place where I’d finally feel like I fit.
It’s struggle street for many autistic / neurodivergent people to feel different and alone and not understood.
Making friends hasn’t always come easily to me, and surface-level conversation has never been what I’m looking for. I crave the conversations where you go deep - where you talk about
- who you are
- what you believe
- what you’re building
- what scares you
- and what you really want from your life.
And listening to Tony AI midway through my first Tony Robbins event - Business Mastery - I had this moment of realisation that absolutely broke me open.
Maybe I wasn’t the wrong “place”
Maybe I was looking for the wrong “thing”
Connection isn’t a location.
It’s finding people who think deeply, dream big, challenge themselves, and actually want to talk about the things that matter.
People where you don’t have to make yourself smaller, quieter, or more “normal” 🤡 just to belong.
I think that’s what I’ve been searching for my entire life.
Not a place where I fit in.
But PEOPLE I can go deep with.
And for the first time, I feel like I’ve found them. ❤️
And yes you’re right, me crying first thing in the morning with a breathing strip is super sexy indeed 🤡
Tony Robbins
