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Separation / Divorce Coach and Strategist Divorcee; Single mum; helping others navigate through an emotionally charged period in their lives.

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔💔Permission to heal. Permission to move on. Permission to be okay before everything was resolved. Permiss...
27/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔💔

Permission to heal. Permission to move on. Permission to be okay before everything was resolved. Permission to feel something other than guilt for the choices you made or the choices you didn't make fast enough. At some point, you stopped waiting for the settlement to be signed or the co-parenting to smooth out or your ex to acknowledge something before you allowed yourself to live. That day — whenever it was — was one of the most important of this whole process. Today, be grateful for it.

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26/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔

The people who are most convincingly fine are often the ones who have had the most practice. Holding it together at school pickup. Managing the professional face. Reassuring everyone around you that you're coping because showing that you're not would require a conversation you don't have the capacity for right now. I see this constantly. The high-functioning person who is quietly disintegrating. The one who keeps everyone else's anxiety at bay by absorbing it. The one who will say 'I'm okay' to every person in their life and mean it to none of them. There is no judgement here. The mask is often a survival tool. But it is also the thing that keeps you from getting the support that could actually help. You do not have to be fine to get help. You can be exactly as not-fine as you are. That's enough.

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25/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔

You have more power in your separation than you think. You have legal rights you haven't explored. Financial entitlements no one has explained to you. Strategic options your ex is counting on you not knowing. Ignorance isn't protection it's the most expensive thing you own right now.

25/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔

Sunday morning. Mandarin homework done. ✅

My partner and I are six lessons into learning Mandarin together, and it’s become one of my favourite parts of the week.

Now it’s time to reset the house so the week ahead starts calm, not chaotic. Get ready with me. 🧺✨

Small rituals, every week. That’s how you rebuild a rhythm that feels like yours. 💛

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔There is a playlist somewhere or a single song, or a particular album that knows what this year has felt ...
24/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔

There is a playlist somewhere or a single song, or a particular album that knows what this year has felt like. The one you put on in the car when you needed to feel something other than what you were feeling. The one that made you cry in a way that helped. The one that made you feel strong when everything else said you weren't. Music does something neurologically that almost nothing else can do this quickly. Today, be grateful for whatever it was that carried you sonically through the hardest parts.

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23/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔

Every time you say yes when you mean no, you are making a deposit into a resentment account that will eventually be withdrawn against you, against the relationship, against the situation. In separation, this pattern is particularly costly. You agree to the informal arrangement to keep the peace and later realise it has become the baseline. You take the extra custody time without formalising it and it gets used as evidence of a different arrangement. Saying no now is not selfish. It is honest. And it is far cheaper than the resentment, the confusion, and sometimes the legal bill that comes from not saying it.

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SPLIT HAPPENS💔Practical. Grounded. Realistic. Genuinely supportive.KB's description of the advice lands because it names...
22/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS💔

Practical. Grounded. Realistic. Genuinely supportive.

KB's description of the advice lands because it names something that matters enormously in this space: realism. Not false hope. Not catastrophising. Grounded, practical guidance about what is actually achievable and what it will actually take.
Separation is hard practically and emotionally and the right support changes what hard looks like. It doesn't make it easy. It makes it navigable.

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21/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔

Every yes you say when you mean no is a withdrawal from an account that is already overdrawn. During a separation, your energy reserves are not what they normally are. The legal process, the emotional load, the solo parenting, the financial decisions all of it is drawing from the same pool. When you add to that pool by saying yes to things that don't serve you, attend things you didn't want to attend, take on tasks that should belong to someone else you are not being generous. You are eroding the capacity you need for the things that actually matter. 'No' is a complete sentence. 'That doesn't work for me' requires no appendix. The guilt that arrives with it is a conditioned response, not a signal that you have done something wrong. Feel the guilt. Say no anyway. The guilt passes. The energy you protected doesn't.

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21/10/2026

SPLIT HAPPENS 💔

Today I attended HERA’s Built to Last event with the incredible and inspirational Pamela Cominos.

It was an opportunity to mingle with like minded business women. I walked away with some Key Takeaways:

1. Build my business with a clear exit plan
2. Be deliberate in how much I reinvest in my business
3. Be comfortable with being uncomfortable when I am working on my business
4. Continue to reflect inwards on the things that make me uncomfortable and work on them
5. Outsource the things that I don’t enjoy or not good at and focus on the things that I’m passionate about in my business.

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