20/05/2026
My beautiful souls,
I hope you are well.
It’s been sometime since I wrote my notes for the month, so here’s my May notes. 📝
What I love profoundly about my work is that each day, I encounter new questions to ask. And what I notice is that we are so busy responding to life that we rarely ask ourselves deep growth questions.
I met someone the other day who didn’t know what a life coach was but they asked questions to understand.
Throughout my career one of the most tangible examples I can give you as you’re probably wondering what she mean by asking questions? What kind of questions?
In the world of personal development we ask ourselves questions when challenges present, a break up, a loss G-d forbid, when you’re stuck between a rock and a hard place or just simply how to connect with the inner voice;
To give you a clear example, I had a client who came in to see me who carried tremendous guilt about her past. And couldn’t get past the heaviness and to be most direct with them I asked: just ask yourself how would you feel if you didn’t feel this guilt you’ve carried for so long?
They paused and said: “free”
Often we are so immersed in the forest that cannot see the trees around us showing us a way out.
This is why we must become curious when challenged, not ponder on the problem itself for too long.
This reminds me of the book I am reading by Viktor Frankl, Yes To Life.
Viktor Frankl, lived inside some of the most atrocious concentration camps, one of them being Auschwitz, where he was able to serve as a psychiatrist in the camps. He lived and experienced life both as the observer of terror witnessing the pain, the fear, the struggle, the collective death of the mind and the spirit while still alive before souls were sent into gas chambers. And he questioned life intelligently to serve in the survival of the spirits of those whom were close to death yet survived and those who were departing.
My point is, while you are alive, LIVE. Question your choices, your happiness, your sadness robbing you of fulfilment you were meant to receive.
Love you, 🌹🤎
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