06/10/2022
You donāt always reach the summit, or win the game or get to do the thing that you wanted to do in life.
We have a choice though, to perceive it as failure or to perceive it as an experience; an opportunity to learn and grow. Some of our most powerful lessons and opportunities to grow come from adversity and challenge and discomfort. And what is life without these things.
I wouldnāt be who I am today if I had made it to the Olympics, if I had got into the first masters program I applied to, or if I was still in that old s**t relationship that I wanted to work out. Every bump, every turn, every situation that doesnāt āwork outā is an opportunity to learn, grow, reflect, re-evaluate, seek understanding and be more human.
When achievement happens, we often celebrate the achievement itself, but the reality is that it is the reflection and culmination of all the things that came before it. All the failures, all the disappointment, the heartbreak, the injury, the loss, the grief. Itās process vs outcome.
Without discomfort there is no growth. And I am so so grateful for the opportunities Iāve had for discomfort and failure over the years. Itās helped shape me into the person I am today.
Set big goals, fail, have the hard conversation, push your body to its limit, say no or say yes but speak your truth, be honest with yourself.
Just know that every action taken toward discomfort is making you better, stronger, more resilient, more courageous, more confident. And more human.